"It's just weed."
You've heard it from friends, partners, maybe even a doctor. And here's the honest part: weed is, in fact, less dangerous than a lot of substances. That's true. It's also completely irrelevant when it's the thing running your life.
Cannabis Use Disorder is in the DSM. Roughly 3 in 10 people who use cannabis develop some level of it. The flower and concentrates sold today are several times more potent than what existed twenty years ago, and dependency forms faster than most people realize.
Your experience isn't unusual. It isn't made up. You don't have to prove anything to anyone before you're allowed to want out.